**How to find Love at KFC**
Jan 23, 2019
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tEr151EhLc4

there's many of those songs I don't wear
a thong maybe you do but no me I don't
wear that but floss Oh until that old
fell we said you were proud of me and
welcome to Wednesday no okay so welcome
to Tuesday tonight I thought that me
that I would do something a little bit
different so as most of you guys know
that yesterday I went to the doctors and
I was told I had a kidney and bladder
infection haven't felt the best today so
I've pretty much stayed laying low
drinking lots and lots and lots and lots
of water and just pumping everything
through me getting my medicines and all
that good stuff but because I didn't
really do anything I thought you know
this is the best time ever to learn
about me and our way together so my
sweet husband agreed to Yano and get
questioned and he's gonna question me
don't know if that's a good idea or not
anyways so I gosh look at this
I feel like you know I can just get
cushiony here it's like you know
I'm like pushing you out of the way so
we are going to do a Q&A kind of thought
that was a little bit something fun and
you guys get to hear our answers neither
one of us have gone over any of these
questions I don't know what's gonna be
asked so we had no time to y'know
practice our answers so you guys are
gonna see the answers as first time as
we were gonna hear the answers for the
first time and then after that then I
think that we'll share a little bit
about our meeting experience because I
know that a lot of you guys have had
questions so between that and a little
bit of us we may love talk
we have Nathan KFC Kentucky Fried gals
and we did not meet at Kentucky for a
camel can thank you Frank cats however
however when I was in Egypt that's what
I was told that I was eating because I
was told oh that's gonna can't see I was
like oh whoa whoa can't see in Egypt
yeah was I'm sitting there enjoying my
mil he decides to tell me honey you know
what KFC stands for in Egypt right I'm
like Kentucky Fried Chicken like him
hello he's like no honey it's Kentucky
Fried camel y'all should have seen how
fast him I dropped my chin like what was
with a Kareem in my mouth right now no
it was chicken but he had me going for
crows yeah but I never know that is
nasty the things my husband thinks about
this is a guy also in my neighborhood
back home he makes like a food truck and
he makes liver and sausage and stuff and
I love that guy you know since that guy
open you never see any cat or Street
cats or Street dogs you know let me know
the location of that place so I stay far
away oh yes so yes it was Kentucky Fried
Chicken y'all but he thought that he was
he thought he was smooth and he thought
he was cool when he told me that it was
camel because I believed him because you
know we were just we were just getting
to know each other
I didn't know he had
of a camel like how a thigh I was
standing next to counter this dude over
here thought that he was gonna be cool
and Swift and try and get me up on the
camel
yeah I'm not happening ha NAT has been a
server now so you guys told me how come
you go to Egypt without you know seeing
the camel and writing the permits you
know and enjoying you know and just it
doesn't make any sense
I seen the Campbell and I seen the
pyramids yeah I did I wasn't gonna know
I wasn't gonna ride one although you
know her Missouri captain he although he
thought he was gonna be cool and get me
up on this small itty-bitty little horse
carriage that my butt took up the whole
thing I should go and this thing was
like rocking back and forth any guy
should have seen me I was like whoa oh I
was making myself experiencing I miss
those days when we go after midnight I
ride horses over there and it's just
amazing yeah my husband loves horses me
on the other hand no I'll look at them
from far direction but I'm not gonna
touch him no but he would number one
what gift that your spouse gave you came
as the biggest surprise well when you
told me that you're pregnant that was
the biggest surprise yeah that probably
hits the darts pretty high there yeah
and how about the second time that I
told you I was pregnant that was a big
surprise that one you guys oh my gosh
let me tell ya so when I took that
pregnancy test the second time around I
did not believe it he was at work and I
was cooking dinner and I was seen the
next test I thought I'm just gonna take
him sitting here why why not it's one
for Mom are my four month old bouncing
in his little bouncer yeah cute go take
the test and I sit it back down on the
counter and I go to work I'll know my
dinner I decided to take a little check
and it says pregnant I'm like oh my gosh
so I was like what can I do because I
need to get this guy
I've got to get this guy so I had just
gotten a oh my gosh what was oh it was a
bluetooth earpiece and it came in like
this perfect sized box that fit the test
so I put it in there and I wrapped it up
and he's like why are you spending money
why are you buying me gifts cuz this guy
does not like gifts like he does not
like surprises give me the cat he's
always like mom give me the money give
me the money so I was like honey just
opened the gift just stop it just open
it so he of course opens it and this
this guy over here says oh is this
Omar's test that's what I thought he
thought it was almost no I didn't even
cross my mind that she's pregnant again
no I looked at him and I'm like no babe
we're having another baby he looked at
me he was like you're joking I'm like
nope it's a big old pregnant so yeah
that's how I told him his second child
Omar was a little under 16 weeks when we
found out we were expecting another one
at the time didn't know that it was a
little Ezra but yeah between you and
your wife who would you generally say is
the money spender and who is the money
saver that is my question like come on
I'm the money saver I am the one that
saves all the money and this guy blows
through money like water and I'm always
freaking out because I he just spins and
spins and spins and I just never know
where the money's going and the victor
said that was a lie yes you guys I am
NOT a very good money keeper I have
access to the bank account but so does
he so he will make sure to check because
they'll be like like the spending of
like $14 to have like where's go but I
don't know Dollar Tree
you'll be like okay next couple
these where'd you go Oh goodwill I used
to be really good with budgeting now
it's like I was good budgeting at one
point when I was 10 years old and I only
had quarters yeah no he's so funny
he's he's my for me Barney oh my god if
your wife could choose one thing of
yours to get rid of what would she
choose what what's the one thing I would
get rid of what did you fall asleep I
would get rid of his mess in a garage my
husband loves his tools and his
buildings someone's gonna call you like
there's a problem with this couple as
his mess in the garage would be a long
goner if I could because he's a mess of
maker he loves his messes and your wife
says honey they're playing our song
what song are they plane there's many
songs I don't wear a thong maybe you do
but uh no me
I don't wear that butt floss many songs
be my African Queen oh fat girls that's
the movie he's talking about and yes
that is one of my very favorite movie
yeah African Queen is the song if you
watch it think of me know what living
celebrity woman will your wife say she
most admires slang deal
that's you nah me I ain't got the hots
for her I love somebody ever so you
should know that's old
anyways when your wife was 13 years old
what did she want to be when she grew up
per medics she wanted to be a paramedic
my very first thing that I ever wanted
to be and I stuck with that until I was
first responder emergency mm-hmm I
wanted to be paramedic in the 911 field
something in that manner or 1802 and and
then I switched to being a nurse and
then the ultimate thing that I ever ever
ever ever wanted to be was I wanted to
be a mortician that's what I wanted to
do and that's why I went to cosmetology
school but when I found out that the
only school that they had for mortician
at that time was in New York I there was
no way I would have been able to fulfill
about oh my goodness somebody has lost
it okay
who do you think a smarter or has the
higher IQ you or your spouse oh well I'm
gonna answer that one he's so good at it
and like we could be doing like the
bills or going to the grocery store I'm
just trying to randomly figure something
out
he is like a walking human calculator
like I can tell him something be like
okay honey I need the data and you're
just like it doesn't take him but a few
seconds and he'll be like I'm so honest
with you okay it's this and I'm like how
I can't even say two plus four in my
brain without something there's a three
four so yeah okay if your husband / wife
could be any famous person living or
dead who would he or she be you can go
first on that answer well when I had
hair he always looked like armor Sharif
I take that that's like an Egyptian
person okay like he is literally broke
my plastic heart
no Omar Sharif no universe
you guys know Arabia you never seen am I
good with Emmy actor or actor so he
won't he's won over like battles and
king in the whole world
okay he'll go on all day I waited for
you on the station uh-huh Lucy who's
that do you guys see who I live with
who doesn't know how he's gonna go on
all night for me
I don't know I really don't I don't know
what would your spouse say his or her
greatest strength would be so what would
be your greatest strength okay um I
would say his greatest strength is being
a great husband a great provider Oh a
great father
oh and a best friend for me that's what
I think of him know what is yours you're
catching your wife friend and mother and
everything you should be like baby
you're the best youtuber the best
business owner the wonderfulest wife the
best mother oh I thought that you're
supposed to be answering it down just a
notch so really quick we're going to run
down run the wood stone really quick of
how we met and a little bit about our
experience as a married couple so
back in 1900 back in the day many many
moons ago when there was a lack of hay
when there was yahoo chat room here I
didn't know I was a here but alright I
think a hair is a rabbit isn't it a
rabbit know back in the day
well here's a clearer throat now okay so
would we first Matt wait chat it of
course online well that one was the
yellow chat was that big computer screen
and the huge thing I think before the
laptops were even everything I think
they were around but they were really
really expensive and they're really
heavy ones yeah there was no joke to the
line we just talked we clicked you know
and we decided to meet in person so we
met in person three days later we got
married
takes the whole love out of it like the
whole love stories just like down the
list of everything that's happened in
life men know we started chatting and we
found that we were communicating and
really like finding that we had a lot in
common and so we talked over amount of
months and then we decided through
chatting that we wanted to take it to
the next level and so oli had asked if I
would marry him because I mean of course
he couldn't ask me in person so he asked
me if I would marry him and of course I
was over the moon I was like oh my god
yes
so we got engaged and then we decided
for me to it would be easier for me to
fly to Egypt than him come to the u.s.
at that point and I I had never traveled
outside of where I my city is so it I
thought it would be a special experience
for me as well and so I flew over to
Egypt and three days later we got
married and we had the most we had the
most amazing like honeymoon
he showed me so much around Egypt it was
just amazing like showing me his culture
and his family well now they're my
family but at the time his family they
were such amazing people they were just
a beautiful family his mother just
embraced me from the day that she
married me if I could talk then be great
the day they she met me she just took me
in under her wing as one of her
daughters and his sisters were
absolutely beautiful they just you know
his oldest sister she was giving me
jewelry and you know his little sister
and there were so little then now
they're adults and engaged and married
and it's just a beautiful story but his
youngest sister she was so cute she was
just like you know giving me his jabs
and just all sorts of stuff and of
course his brother was just you know I'm
a boy and you know taking pictures and
having fun but um one thing that we that
sticks out to me on that trip was he had
a set of lovebirds and I'll never ever
ever ever forget this and I don't know
why it stuck out and I have a picture
actually of me with those lovebirds and
he named him Amy and oli so and they
were alive even when you came here
weren't they because all more took care
of him for a while yeah but anyways and
so I was there for a little under five
weeks and it was just an amazing
experience you know especially when you
can only talk to somebody and not have
physical contact you really get to know
that person for every
that they are worth so sorry I was
hearing something and so anyways it just
meant a lot to us that we were able to
get that connection
physically afterwards but mentally and
emotionally that connection it just
means so much when you can do it the way
that we did it and so having that extra
four weeks as physical experience being
able to finally meet each other and
learn our likes our dislikes but in a
human nature it's different like in a
human aspect versus only doing it
through communication and we just knew
that we clicked from day one and
honestly she's fine honey she's just
coffee she's not choking
okay go out we're almost done and so we
started the process to get him to the
u.s. immediately when I got back because
we knew you wanted this and it was a
very hard year that we had to be
separated because it was paperwork and
all that stuff and it brought us even
closer I think than even what we worried
and that was that was close and we
brought it brought us even closer just
because it really I mean it test as Rory
okay Ezra stop it it really brought us
to a different level of connection and
you know it just I people ask me
sometimes you know like was it a good
you know a good connection or was it a
good experience to meet your husband
online and to be honest with you yeah it
was and I would say I would do it all
over again with him if it would have had
to happen you know what I'm saying like
it just we became best friends before we
got married and we've just been best
friends ever since and our love grows
everyday deeper and deeper and stronger
and stronger
I don't know it's it's a weird
connection that we have but it's the
best connection that I could ever ever
dream for and you know sometimes as
young little girls you know you always
dream about your prince you know your
prince charming the guy that you're
gonna marry the wedding that you want
what kind of children you're gonna have
and you know all those dreams you think
about and for me it was different
because of my life and the way that I
was brought up I just wanted to find
somebody that would love me I didn't
care who it was what it was where it was
I just wanted to be loved I wanted to be
loved unconditionally I didn't want to
be hurt anymore
and I was very fearful for many many
years to ever get close to anybody
because every time I got close to
somebody they hurt me so when I found
him
I knew that my little girl dream was
finally answered and that was him being
my my husband and so yeah that is kind
of like our little are our story and I'm
gonna let him share on his side because
that's my side well just like you said
you know and you know just like you said
you know my opinion love doesn't need
long times days a month to get to know
each other you know blah blah blah blah
you know I felt that our love gets
stronger day after day you know just you
know it gets stronger with with all the
life you know if it's true love it will
get stronger or whatever if you're
having a hard time if you're having some
tough time you know whatever okay that
makes it stronger all these experiences
you know the time being apart yeah
everything in life that you can turn to
make that love stronger you know and how
did you know that I was the one for you
well the thing is
it's a feeling you get in your heart for
me I never thought I will get married I
always made fun of my friends that were
getting married and stuff like that I
was like dude are you kidding me
you're getting married God rest your
soul I never thought that I will one day
I will get married and have kids you
know the idea wasn't in my head yeah I
wasn't looking to get married so we just
met when collect you know I was like you
know what that's the one so what were my
personality traits that brought you to
that thought because you I mean I'm sure
the man you had your oh yeah whiteness
you know I love that white faces you
know there's like people some people you
have there and you're one of them like
you look at their faces like their face
are quiet you know but it's just
peaceful face you know you love to look
at them and you enjoy a conversation
with them me you be enjoying what are
you talking to them yeah it just I I
can't say like there is one thing that I
attract me to you but everything you
know it's it's a package I'm not saying
you you know Amy is perfect but marriage
is a package you know okay if there is
something you don't like in your spouse
or your partner you work around that do
you work with it you know nobody's
perfect and we all have something wrong
we try to hide by you know what do not
try to try to hide it from your spouse
because you go to them and let's just
work on that let's try to fix that if
it's something you know need to be fixed
you know if it's something doesn't hurt
but you don't like it and it doesn't do
any bad or any damage okay just leave it
yeah you know you don't want to hide
exact you know there is some stuff you
know that's the life but we had such
good open communication I think that
that is a bit key for us if if that's
like they can't like a work out for
spouses you know just like a piece of
paper or a hair get it a new tool hold
it okay
and you true try to pull in the same
time what's gonna happen
yeah what's gonna happen to that hair
it's gonna snap it's gonna snap but when
you pull let her just you know see I'm
towards you a little bit I'm one sheet
below you go towards her yeah it will
stay yeah and that's the relationship
any relationship true okay it's give and
take yeah okay
relationships doesn't go one way it goes
both ways and I think that's what making
a relationship last succeeded you know
that's giving T you know do we have a
perfect marriage don't know no you don't
need me see we have our moments too but
the thing is that's different is our
foundation has been built on the fact
that neither one of us are ever right we
all have our flaws one's gonna be wrong
the others gonna be wrong but like he's
explaining when if you know if if I'm
pulling one way give a little and if
he's pulling one way give a little and
so that way it's always going back and
forth but you're never pulling apart you
know because once you like he said once
you pull apart it's it's gonna snap and
there goes your marriage but you know
our foundation has built been built so
strong in communication you know our
communication is very strong you know if
one or the other is struggling with
something whether it be
in our personal lives you know just in
our bodies our emotions or in our
marriage our children or whatever is
going on we always come together and we
always talk about it and always
communicate that you know so that we're
not left to try and figure out what's
wrong with one or the other to our
foundation is built on trust
you know neither one of us have given
each other a reason to have no trust
within each other and three I I think
our foundation is built upon the fact
that we live in reality
and when I say reality I feel like it's
you can always expect something to pop
up you know so you're always ready to
nip it in the butt the second that
something's gonna come up that might
trigger a problem in your marriage so we
don't live in a fantasy that nothing's
ever gonna happen with our marriage
because how'd you do that you're just
gonna put blindfolds on your eyes and
you guys by the time the problem is
completely destroyed your marriage
before you realize oh my god we have a
problem so we always are checking in
with each other you know and throughout
the day we always ask each other hey are
you okay is everything all right you
know but again are we perfect no do we
have a perfect marriage absolutely not
we have our strong things and we have
our weak moments as well I mean there is
no perfect marriage there is that
perfect life perfect man perfect woman
there is no perfect you try to do the
best and that's it you you we all try
and you uplift each other Thursday's
where I feel like I'm just like crap you
know I just don't want to do any
addition you know sometimes we disagree
you know sure okay I'll go for a drive
or something you know what she will go
for a drive you know the important that
we do not let our disagreement come goes
to a third party yeah we do not let our
disagreement get out of our bedroom yeah
our kids doesn't hear about it nobody
will hear about it it stays between us
we will figure it out you know it
reminds me of a guy
get him to a fight with his wife you
know no fight like fistfight yeah so he
went and stood in the room and shut the
door but he kind of felt like there's
somebody inside and he can the doubt
that she was trying to like you know
sneak on him or something so he like
speaking his mind acting like a singing
speaking to himself and it was like
seriously after all these years you were
doing that I wish if your father was
alive still alive
I really wish if your father was still
alive so I can go to him and tell him
see your daughter you know and I
complain to him and vent and just tell
him Andy I'm sure he will let you come
to me and apologize and talk to me and
she opened the door and she was like oh
my god dad where are you taking me dad
oh my gosh yeah be like that yeah that's
how it doesn't matter you know oh you're
right you're wrong you did that you once
he starts oh you did that you know you
did that you're gonna make it we're
never gonna go anywhere just yeah you
know and I will say one other key thing
to is always making sure you never go to
bed angry oh yes always always make sure
that you've cleared that argument that
disagreement that misunderstanding to
the best of your ability it doesn't mean
that you guys have come to an agreement
that moment but always making sure that
you just hunter point their anger over
you and there's people who spend days
don't talk to each other and so that's
not good it's not good it's not healthy
for your life it's it's not healthy for
the marriage you know it's not where is
that gonna take you because you're just
completely ignoring each other like it's
not gonna make the problem just go away
yeah you know if anything is just gonna
build more anger underneath you and you
might be tucking it in and then one day
one or the other might say something and
that person's gonna explode and you've
lost your whole marriage over something
that you just could have totally avoided
had you just had
communication but now am i saying you
have to fix the problem that day no but
coming to an appoint that hey you know
what I recognize that we're not gonna
come to an agreement today I want you to
know I love you and no matter what we
will figure this out whether you know we
figure it out today or we figure out
tomorrow or next week but I want you to
know that I love you we're gonna agree
to disagree at this point and we go to
bed without having that hate or anger or
whatever going on in our brain and in
our heart so when we wake up the
following day we have it's refreshed so
I thought it would just be kind of you
know important to bring this video I've
had a lot of questions from people
asking about mine and Ali's marriage and
our relationship and you know it's just
you know you you kind of put it on a
scale of you know is it a good thing to
talk about is it not because I don't
want to be you know one of these people
that come on and you know people think
oh you know they're putting on a show
that they've got like this perfect life
in this perfect marriage and that's
definitely not it
but I wanted to share our love of what
we have together and let you know that
even and be an imperfect marriage but a
perfect marriage for yourself and for
your spouse and when I say perfect it's
because it's perfect for you too
and that's all that matters it doesn't
have to be perfect for anybody else your
marriage is your marriage your
relationship is your relationship it
doesn't have to be anything it doesn't
have to be husband and wife I'm not
putting that you know it could be
whatever your partner you know but as
long as your relationship is perfect for
each other that's all that matters and
the key things are is communication
trust respect and keeping your problems
and your stuff I would be home just that
that's it you know inside your room
because if you have children you don't
want them to know these things you don't
want them to carry the burdens that come
along with a relationship but there'll
be a time as your children get older
that you want to share some of these
things with them not your personal
experiences but so that they will start
gaining the tools that you have to go
into their own relationships but I just
think it's important too
always promote healthy relationships and
however that happens within your guys's
own relationships is so important and I
hope you guys enjoyed this video that me
and oli put together for you guys and
I'm gonna close here we're going to
close here because it is way past this
obviously it is way past kids as bedtime
and this bear over here needs to go
night-night
and I will check in with you guys
tomorrow I'm hoping that I will feel
better tomorrow you guys I am so sorry
that it's been a lazy day today it has
just been real AZ down my doctor said
just kind of take it easy today so
that's what I've done but hopefully
tomorrow will be a better more fantastic
day I know I we're gonna go to the store
tomorrow at some point so maybe I'll
take you guys along anyways alright I
will check in with you guys tomorrow
bright and shiny in the morning until
then sweet dreams bye bye
good night but I know T good you know
just Mahalo here
